In this video, we reflect on the changing portrayal of masculinity, particularly through the lens of K-Pop and Korean dramas, and how they influence young men’s understanding of what it means to be a man. While it may seem harmless, the rise of feminine-looking idols and hyper-idealized masculinity in pop culture can create confusion for boys and men as they navigate their identities. We’ll discuss how these images of manhood are often off the mark and why it’s important to distinguish between appearance and true masculinity, focusing on strength, responsibility, and leadership rather than superficial trends.